good-bye:

Saying good-bye to one’s job is a trivial thing, though there are exceptions of course. If you are mature and i.e. professionally experienced enough, you must have changed many jobs till you found something that more or less suited you.

There are people who even say good-bye to happiness. Of course, if any person was asked a question: ‘Would you ever refuse from happiness if it suddenly arrived and knocked on your door?’, the answer would invariably be ‘NEVER’. So does it mean that people have reasons to say good-bye to their happiness? So much for the power of good bye, or maybe it’s another hardship, a trick, a choice making which will make us stronger in time?

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Saying good-bye is a piece of cake when you leave something that is transient in your life. However, saying good-bye is always difficult when you (have to) just drop something you got used to, something you love being occupied with or something that gives you positive emotions.

We say good-bye to so many things and people, that we don’t realize the strength of this farewell ‘magic’ word and the power it often possesses over us.

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When U Learn to Let Go

They say that when you learn to let something or someone go freedom comes. In a way it really is true because when you, for example, can't live with a person because he or she hurts you, there comes a moment when your patience says loud and clear NO to your heart and refuses to endure the pain caused by the person you love. At these instants you learn to let go things and people that torture you in their own loving or sadistic (or all in one) way.

Of course, you may feel certain relief when you say good-bye in similar situations and i.e. sort of let a person and i.e. a part of yourself go, and yes, it may bring you freedom just as the juicy quotation promises. But will you need this freedom and what for will you need it then? Guess the answer to this question is too obvious for us not to spell it out.

There are cases when we just have to learn to let go just because we have no other choice, just because we are only humans who make mistakes, who depend on circumstances of the (often) cruel and material world, who have such parasites as foolish pride and some childish defensiveness which we are often unable to get rid off – till it's too late and the power of good-bye is in action, that is.

In any case, no matter what emotions saying good-bye to things or people that hurt you or bring you discomfort results in, there is still no other way out but letting go of everything that deprives you of sacred peace of mind.

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