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When Somebody Says IT to U

We may say good-bye to myriad of things and endless amount of people both close ones and strangers; we may be greatly shocked by regrets, sadness, depression, tough getting-over sessions, empty feelings these good-byes may bring to us, but it's always much harder to hear 'good-bye' in your own address, especially when you are totally unprepared to hear it – usually it happens exactly this unexpected way.
Who and why may say good bye to us?? Actually, it's all about same things we say our good-bye to: friends, lovers, bosses, family etc. When we are fired for this or that reason, especially if we like the job, especially if we know the reason we were fired for is unjust, we may fall into deep depression.
When we are dumped by our lovers, it's even worse because it leaves a person with his or her self-confidence at his/her feet and his/her heart under the steps of the one who says the dreadful good-bye.
In case our friends leave us, we must first and foremost analyze both sides' behaviour and objectively decide why these things are happening.
There are situations when families throw out their members for reasons that are individual for them – there are so many of them that it would take a whole lifetime to spout off about the details.
In any case, it's bloody painful when someone says good-bye to you, especially if this someone is so precious that you just forget yourself when thinking of him/her. In any case, the situation is survivable, remember that EVERYTHING is survivable as long as your health is there for you – so make sure you cherish well.