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Saying good-bye to one’s job is a trivial thing, though there are exceptions of course. If you are mature and i.e. professionally experienced enough, you must have changed many jobs till you found something that more or less suited you.

There are people who even say good-bye to happiness. Of course, if any person was asked a question: ‘Would you ever refuse from happiness if it suddenly arrived and knocked on your door?’, the answer would invariably be ‘NEVER’. So does it mean that people have reasons to say good-bye to their happiness? So much for the power of good bye, or maybe it’s another hardship, a trick, a choice making which will make us stronger in time?

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Saying good-bye is a piece of cake when you leave something that is transient in your life. However, saying good-bye is always difficult when you (have to) just drop something you got used to, something you love being occupied with or something that gives you positive emotions.

We say good-bye to so many things and people, that we don’t realize the strength of this farewell ‘magic’ word and the power it often possesses over us.

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Good-Bye and Soul-Searching

As a rule, when you say good-bye to something or someone globally important to you, you lose yourself a bit – we've just discussed it. Eventually, when you get over the unbearable pain, the danger of becoming a wild mental and getting into a lunatic asylum, you finally start thinking sensible thoughts.

And when you do, you need further actions in order to be able to get rid of the remnants of the emptiness which hasn't yet left your body and soul completely. What do people usually do to realize this desire? They give in to their natural desire to stop for a while and deicide what they want from their future, from life they continue living as a whole again. In other words, having said painful good-bye and having got over it till they are sensible enough, people start soul-searching. It's very natural because now that they have started a new life without things or people who they thought would stay with them forever, they are a bit lost in empty spaces of their own soul and surrounding world.

It's important for one's soul-searching process not to last long because if it does, a person may just stuck in this moment and make an attempt to shut himself or herself out from the outer world – from both friends and foes, parents and colleagues, from the sun and the moon, from anything. Nope, nobody needs these recessions to periods of almost-a-mental, that's why a perfect way out is to have someone who supports you, understands you and guides you through this difficult situation.

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