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Saying good-bye to one’s job is a trivial thing, though there are exceptions of course. If you are mature and i.e. professionally experienced enough, you must have changed many jobs till you found something that more or less suited you.

There are people who even say good-bye to happiness. Of course, if any person was asked a question: ‘Would you ever refuse from happiness if it suddenly arrived and knocked on your door?’, the answer would invariably be ‘NEVER’. So does it mean that people have reasons to say good-bye to their happiness? So much for the power of good bye, or maybe it’s another hardship, a trick, a choice making which will make us stronger in time?

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Saying good-bye is a piece of cake when you leave something that is transient in your life. However, saying good-bye is always difficult when you (have to) just drop something you got used to, something you love being occupied with or something that gives you positive emotions.

We say good-bye to so many things and people, that we don’t realize the strength of this farewell ‘magic’ word and the power it often possesses over us.

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Good-Bye and Emptiness

In most cases when you say good-bye to something or somebody you seriously planned to connect your life with, one thing that is left inside you (apart from the myriad of controversial and changeable feelings and emotions) is emptiness.

On the one hand, this emptiness is natural and justified because you have been putting your heart and soul in some occupation or a person i.e. you gave yourself (a part of you) to it/him/her, and then the whole thin suddenly disappeared and took a part of you with itself having left you this exhausting emptiness which gnaws you from inside.

On the other hand, calling a thing which tortures you natural and justified is scarcely natural! That's why the best – and the only one- way out of the situation is getting rid of emptiness. No matter how much you want to feel sorry for yourself and cry cry cry endlessly listening to your own tears and rain, you still have to fight this condition because it can lead to a serious mental disorder. Hopefully you care about yourself still in order to find the will to prevent yourself from becoming a total mental! Use any accessible method to soothe yourself and pull yourself together be it meditation or listening to crazy music or even starting taking up judo! Whatever makes you feel better is good – as long as it's legal of course!

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