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Saying good-bye to one’s job is a trivial thing, though there are exceptions of course. If you are mature and i.e. professionally experienced enough, you must have changed many jobs till you found something that more or less suited you.

There are people who even say good-bye to happiness. Of course, if any person was asked a question: ‘Would you ever refuse from happiness if it suddenly arrived and knocked on your door?’, the answer would invariably be ‘NEVER’. So does it mean that people have reasons to say good-bye to their happiness? So much for the power of good bye, or maybe it’s another hardship, a trick, a choice making which will make us stronger in time?

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Saying good-bye is a piece of cake when you leave something that is transient in your life. However, saying good-bye is always difficult when you (have to) just drop something you got used to, something you love being occupied with or something that gives you positive emotions.

We say good-bye to so many things and people, that we don’t realize the strength of this farewell ‘magic’ word and the power it often possesses over us.

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After-'Good-Bye' Emotions

Your after-good-bye emotions are different, they depend on each individual case their character and intensiveness depending on whether things or people you leave behind are important to your or not.

When a person, for instance, says good-bye to Motherland, he or she suffers from keen nostalgia when abroad – especially at the initial stages of life in a foreign country where everything is different from what you had in your native country – language, customs, people. Later a person gets used to the situation and settles down but at first the power of good-bye is acutely felt when you're abroad and know you're not planning to come back.

If you say good-bye to your lover, a person you have loved and still do love, but you know that you have to say good bye to him/her because circumstances prompt you are not meant to be or because you or he/she is too weak or tired to fight for your relationship, your emotions often imply despair, immense sadness and the feeling that you still have so much love to give but it turns out there's no him or her beside you to share your endless gentleness with.

Emotions tend to soothe down no matter how powerful the impact that your good-bye may have had on you. Time heals even the saddest after-good-bye emotions, but memory is impossible to erase which once again proves that the power of good-bye shouldn't be underappreciated.

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